I’ve been playing with the concept lately that all relationships and experiences are simply a mirror of your own internal landscape.
So, thinking about how my relationships have either been with commitment-phobic men or overly possessive men. I could get angry about this and blame the low quality of men out there.
But the reality is, these men are just manifestations of my internal landscape.
Because internally I may have a belief that I’m unworthy of love, which attracts men who also believe the same (and display it with fear of commitment or possessiveness). Like attracts like.
Even more trippy is thinking that if I can change my internal belief around my worthiness of love, then all of these other men will disappear (literally, not just metaphorically), or shape up to join my reality.
Fun ideas to play with